Is this a bad trait to have?

That's probably the best trait anyone could have! Don't try to change that! Of coarse you shouldn't let people walk all over you, but I wish I could be as nice as you seem to be! If your nice you have no problems witch means your the happiest person of the group(: but tell them that if you have to pick sides you puck neither, you won't talk to them untill they become friends because you hate to see them like this!